Welcome to Swanner Life Solutions
Whether you are in a long standing monogamous relationship, exploring polyamory, or diving into a kinky lifestyle, with the help of a compassionate coach you can build the authentic relationships that you desire. Together we can discover deeper communication, set healthy boundaries, and create joyful connections in all of your relationships.
Our Services
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Relationship Coaching
Reignite your passion!
Relationship coaching can help you rediscover your spark. Together we can improve communication skills, enhance self-esteem, uncover the patterns that are inhibiting your connection and implement new strategies to magnify intimacy!
Struggling with a specific problem? Looking to deepen your connection? Let's work together to reach your goals and build the relationship that you desire.
Contact me today and schedule your complimentary introductory session!
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Polyamory Coaching
Build and maintain the authentic relationships that you crave.
Whether you are brand new to ENM or in a long established polycule, we can work together to navigate complex emotions, ease relationship transitions, and manage conflict effectively to allow your relationships to grow and thrive.
Let's work together to improve communication, establish healthy boundaries, and manage practical issues like time and scheduling.
Contact me today for a free introductory session!
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Kink Coaching
Explore your fantasies and make them a part of your reality.
Whether you are looking to spice up the bedroom or integrate kink into your daily life, together we can strengthen communication, enhance trust, improve self-confidence, and build the dynamic that you crave.
Been involved in the Kink lifestyle for a long time and feeling stuck in the same routine, let's work together to deepen connection, further exploration, and reignite the spark that originally drew you to this lifestyle.
Everything starts with a conversation in a judgement-free enviornment. Contact me today for a free introductory session!
Disclaimer & Professional Boundaries
Coaching is Not Therapy
The coaching services provided by Swanner Life Solutions are for educational and personal development purposes only. While I hold a Bachelor’s degree in Psychology and am currently pursuing a Master’s degree in Counseling Psychology, I am providing services strictly in my capacity as a Relationship, Polyamory, and Kink Coach.
Not a Substitute for Mental Health Treatment
Coaching is not a replacement for professional mental health treatment, psychotherapy, or medical care. Our work together is goal-oriented and focuses on the present and future; it is not intended to:
Diagnose, treat, or cure any mental health illness or disorder (such as depression, anxiety, or PTSD).
Address deep-seated psychological trauma or clinical pathology.
Provide crisis intervention.
Personal Responsibility
By engaging in coaching, you acknowledge that you are fully responsible for your own physical, mental, and emotional well-being, as well as any decisions or actions you take as a result of our sessions. If I determine that your needs are outside my scope of practice as a coach, I reserve the right to refer you to a licensed mental health professional.
If you are experiencing a mental health emergency, please contact your local emergency services or a crisis hotline immediately.
Best Value
The Relationship Road Map
440
This package is designed for clients who are ready for a deeper, more sustained commitment to transforming their relationship.
Valid for 3 months
Relationship Coaching
Best Value
The Poly Primer
221
This entry-level package is designed for client(s) who are new to polyamory. It provides a structured introduction to the core concepts needed to transition from a monogamous mindset.
Valid for 3 months
Polyamory Coaching
Best Value
The Consent Compass
318.75
Ideal for individuals or couples new to kink or looking to strengthen their foundational communication skills. This package is highly focused on safety, informed consent, and open dialogue.
Valid for 3 months
Kink Coaching for Newbies
Choose your pricing plan
Find one that works for you
Who is Swanner Life Solutions?
My name is Tori Swanner.
I am a certified life and relationship coach with a BS in Psychology. In addition, I am a bisexual woman with over 20 years of personal experience in the polyamory community and more than a decade in the BDSM lifestyle. I am passionate about helping other people become comfortable with themselves and their relationship needs and desires.
