
Polyamory Coaching


About Polyamory and how coaching can help in any phase of this journey.
Polyamory is a relationship orientation and lifestyle that involves developing and maintaining multiple loving, romantic, or sexual relationships with the full knowledge and consent of everyone involved. This intentional approach to relationships requires deep self-reflection and personal growth. To build a healthy and fulfilling polyamorous life, individuals must understand their own desires, boundaries, and needs, and be willing to explore their personal histories and emotional patterns.
While it can be liberating to form multiple connections, doing so requires a realistic understanding of your emotional, mental, physical, and time capacity. In addition to personal responsibilities, managing multiple intimate relationships requires thoughtful scheduling, effective prioritization, and consistent communication. This level of care means staying intentional with each partner, supporting their needs, and clearly communicating your own capabilities and limitations as they evolve.
For many, polyamory is a natural and rewarding way to experience love, but it also presents unique challenges. Living in a society that often prioritizes traditional monogamy can be difficult for polyamorous individuals, who may face social pressure, feelings of isolation, and damage to their self-esteem. Overcoming these challenges and deconstructing mono-normative biases requires intentional effort.
At Swanner Life Solutions, we offer supportive coaching to navigate these complexities. Together, we can help you envision and build your ideal polyamorous life.
Our services can help you with the following:
For newcomers: We can help you explore your goals in polyamory, ethically transition from a monogamous framework, connect with the broader polyamorous community, and navigate complex emotions like jealousy, envy, and compersion.
For experienced practitioners: We can address practical challenges such as time management, maintaining existing partnerships while exploring new connections, planning for a wider polycule, and navigating meta-relationships.
We are committed to providing a safe, non-judgmental space where you can build the communication skills, emotional resilience, and intentional practices needed for healthy and fulfilling relationships.
Disclaimer & Professional Boundaries
Coaching is Not Therapy
The coaching services provided by Swanner Life Solutions are for educational and personal development purposes only. While I hold a Bachelor’s degree in Psychology and am currently pursuing a Master’s degree in Counseling Psychology, I am providing services strictly in my capacity as a Relationship, Polyamory, and Kink Coach.
Not a Substitute for Mental Health Treatment
Coaching is not a replacement for professional mental health treatment, psychotherapy, or medical care. Our work together is goal-oriented and focuses on the present and future; it is not intended to:
Diagnose, treat, or cure any mental health illness or disorder (such as depression, anxiety, or PTSD).
Address deep-seated psychological trauma or clinical pathology.
Provide crisis intervention.
Personal Responsibility
By engaging in coaching, you acknowledge that you are fully responsible for your own physical, mental, and emotional well-being, as well as any decisions or actions you take as a result of our sessions. If I determine that your needs are outside my scope of practice as a coach, I reserve the right to refer you to a licensed mental health professional.
If you are experiencing a mental health emergency, please contact your local emergency services or a crisis hotline immediately.


